The sweet old guy grabbed my arm as I walked through the crowd at our Holiday Senior Lunch, he smiled and with a crooked finger wagging said, "I love what you say at the end of your show."
Then he repeated it with me, "Do something nice for someone, would ja' please? Especially the older folks, they need us most." He clapped his hands and laughed. "You got that right! And thanks."
I am often challenged by that statement. My friend Sue came in on Friday, New Year's Day with her new grandson, a cute little guy with the future in his eyes. My best friend just had a baby this year, as did James Lee, our creative director and overnight host on WAKR and many others in our circle.
Let me say this, babies need us. They would not survive without us and if we are careful, they have a good shot at doing wonderful things, if only managing to be happy. As we turn the page we are reminded how important this job is.
My closing comment is not meant as a comparison of responsibility, young verses old, rather a challenge not to forget. Those young parents are guided by a natural imperative. Grandparents, too, perhaps even more so.
While it is not easy to care for a new born, an infant, a toddler, it is harder to care for an adult facing the wile of age.
From the mundane to the extraordinary, the needs of the two can be very similar. But while the infant is cute and hopeful, the elderly can be difficult and, yes, unattractive. The baby has his future ahead of him. The old represent the future that is ahead of us, if we are lucky. Everything is different, but the nuts and bolts of care are the same.
Doing something nice for a child is something that every rational person would want to do, go out of their way to do. And that is what makes us special. Managing a kind word and action for an old person often takes effort, and is worth the reminder.
If you are charged with the care of the elderly, always remember that dignity and love is the first of their needs, the rest is simply nurturing. Never forger that you are doing the work that will soften the landing when you and I get there, too.
Happy New Year!









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